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Definitely, sex plays an important role in life of gay men, regardless of their age, attractions and other factors. Things bounded by nature in gay “sexual memory” can not be ignored without giving a chance for further development and improvement.

We will disclose topic closer, to be more precise, will touch this theme – health, gay sex and enjoyment from this, we would say, versatile process, in spite of some natural factors and obstacles, alas!, but to find an ideal balance in sexual relationship is rather hard, among the gays as well.

Sure, the most widespread sexual contact among the gays is the anal one. As we mentioned above, nature endeavored to arrange everything as mush easy and efficiently as possible, but even our nature is unable to predict some associated obstacles, especially when we mean human organism.

1. The anus functions.

Anus in sexual life may give pleasure and many memorable moments, due to the prostate stimulation, especially if we know its functions, advantages and weak points. Yes, if to avoid stresses and exertions, to nurse it, then the right balance and virtually perfect type can be reality.

Certainly, we should touch upon a physiological process and to understand how the anus functions.

The end of the colon, which regulates passage of waste, is the place where opens the anus itself. “ Where is the sex itself”, you can exclaim, and you’ ll be right : )) We’ll stop here and will proceed to sphincter muscles, functioning directly when having sex. The internal and external sphincter muscles, when entering and closing the anus, are the most important ones, when having anal sex. What gives pleasure to gays during the sex ? The answer is simple, just the sphincter muscle, this sensitive membrane with many nerve endings. Therefore it may will be that gays could experience pain when having anal sex.

2. Avoiding the pain.

But we long for balance, similar to perfection, and we don’t need any obstacles. The pain can appear because of pressure or rubbing against the sphincter muscles, due to anal fissures or hemorrhoids. If to use the appropriate lubricating, the pain can be lowered. And you can always seek a gay-friendly doctor for help with fissures, hemorrhoids and other intimate questions.

3. Balance, similar to perfection.

You should know that every person sphincter reacts on a case-by-case basis on penetration. The more gay knows about his body, the more pleasant moments he gets when having sex. You need to know how your anus functions, as the muscles regulate its opening and closing. Tensed you are or relaxed, all these factors influence the sensitivity of your sphincter, so explore how it reacts on pressure or slackness. As an additional limpness, deep breathing could help you. And vice versa, for slight pressure gays may use a small sex-toy, little by little enlarging the size. Mutual trust between partners will help them to discuss various moments and situations. If you with the partner were exploring your sphincter muscles before coitus, and were sharing your experience and sensations on what gives you pleasure and what leads to discomfort, it would be very useful. If your bodies as a whole, the more unforgettable moments you will get from the anal sex.

4. Health and safe sex.

If we touch the topic of hygiene, we need to mention that some of gays avoid anal sex, because of hygiene question. Of course, this fact is closely associated with health, besides sex. There is no need to abuse by any kind of peeling, as well as you should be careful when using intraorganic detersive, as it may contain some irritants, not recommended for the anus. The excessive rubbing should be ignored also, as it may provoke fret or bleeding. For the proper cleaning, the adult moistened tissues may be helpful.

5. Sexually transmitted diseases.

Continuing the topic of hygiene and health, we came close to sexually transmitted diseases. As was mentioned, the anus is a thin membrane, therefore it can be a source for the disease transferability. If there are drops or scratches in the anus, HIV and other STD’s can easily percolate the bloodstream. That’s why bareback sex is a danger for the gays, as the thin membrane between your bloodstream and your partner’s fluids can not be a guarantee for protection. Therefore always use condoms for your health and safe sex.

6. The right for an adequate sexual life.

In conclusion of our discussion we’d like to say, even to ask the gays, to not create for themselves the obstacles or hang-ups, that may deprive them the right to lead an adequate sexual life. If the gay is ashamed of a common doctor consultation, he can always seek a gay-friendly doctor for assistance.

The other things that need to be done and which norms need to be kept in gay’s daily sexual life, have been already related above : ))